Hari ni mummy baca satu nukilan Dr Shukri Abdullah. Kalau baca page dia, he will give some good parenting tips. It is good. Kat sini mummy nak share what I thought and what I felt about those parents loves to share almost everything about their children.
Tak salah kut share your children progress to public or media social semua but for me berpada - pada la. I tengok my close friends semua tak de sangat nak share their children progress, so respect to those! Kita serupa! Biar anak - anak kita we keep as an exclusive assets, tak payah nak expose sangat.
Anak -anak kita, cara kita.
Ada tu yang sampai tahap betul bangga dengan school anak, padahal anak baru 3 - 4 years. Yes, anak korang pandai itu, pandai ini la macam - macam la bagai. Kalau sikit - sikit je I don't care, ini semua pun dia letak thru fb or insta la. Padahal kalau nak compare anak dia and anak orang lain, at the same age, ada lagi yang pandai almost can read at 4 years.
Mummy did letak all of both Aryan and Marsya punya progress but only in this blog because one day I don't know if this application still can open, you all can read this. Pejam celik pun Marsya dah 4 tahun, adik dah setahun. It is all about journey both of you and kalau boleh tak nak riak ke bangga ke apa ke cause takut sebab you all berdua kecik lagi. Journey panjang lagi. Anything can happen. That is why mummy pun jarang upload fb or insta, adela gambar sikit and dadddy la rajin upload but not all la.
Sambung balik cerita, ada tu yang compare their children school and others la kata 4 years tak perlu nak push sangat la whatever la, please do not compare the way you wanted your kids to be. Dah diorang yang hantar montessari mestila tak sama dengan yang hantar dengan smart reader, tadika islam dan lain - lain kan. Mak diorang yang nak push anak itu yang hantar anak ke smart reader so biar jela diorang. Bukan pakai duit kita pun! Ada juga yang hantar anak to some school tapi tak puas hati, siap ada parents tu terang -terangan post kat cic wall kata nak tukar tadika next year. You see, the power of internet!
Yang mummy paling tak tahan, ada parents sikit sikit post progress anak. Kadang - kadang apa dia post tu macam tak releven satu then show anak dia tak berapa sangat compare dengan anak orang lain ada lagi advance. That is why mummy kadang malas nak tengok, kadang mummy tengok juga.
Ada sorang mummy ni anak dia memang advance giler, pandai macam - macam but dia macam suka pujian pulak. Kalau ada friends dia yang puji anak dia pandai, mak aihhhh bukan main lagi dia. Anak kau baru 3 tahun kut cik kak, biar la dulu kita tengok after 20 years boleh tak.
Back to Dr Shukri page, dia ada advice pasal usage of smart phone, wass up and etc la. It is a good advice. Kita ni pulak suka anak pandai macam - macam but his page made me realize that semua tu tak penting. Tak kisah nak kata anak kita kolot asalkan terpelihara kan. Mak ayah bukan takat kena beranak then post gambar anak, development anak kt media social, banyak lagi tanggungjawab lain. Mak kena monitor anak A to Z. Besar kut tanggungjawab tu.
Tapi paling besar tanggungjawab mummy to keep both of you in solat! I hope I can do that, I do really hope! Till then see you in next post.
Both of you, please be someone good in future. That is all I have ever want. Thanks!
