Perubahan terbesar dalam hidup

Hai Marsya

So Marsya dah besar sekarang dan I decide to take you home with me.

Means, you have to stay with me because I wanted to be full mummy to you.

No more 'weekend mummy'.

How?

Mummy dah survey taska yang sesuai for you. Taska Ummi Khadijah. Taska ni Uncle Azizi (ofismate mummy) yang suggestkan. Dia cakap memangla taska what do you expect? Kalau selsema or demam selalu senang berulang sebab berjangkit - jangkit. Tapi he like that his children know how to recite doa everytime makan time, bacaan solat, manners, be friendly dan macam - macam lagila. Of course mestilah ada pros and cons kan.

Mummy jugak dah call Puan Roslina dari taska tu dan dia registration fees RM 50.00 as usual. Makan disediakan dan mummy cuma sediakan baju, susu, toiletries, pampers. Mummy juga dah bookingkan tempat untuk Marsya ye, Marsya boleh datang this coming Monday (2nd April)

Sebenarnya ni dah second time Marsya pergi taska. Dulu masa 7 month mummy hantar Taska Lemon tapi Marsya jatuh sakit and asyik kena neb. Mummy tak tahn, terus hantar balik kat nenek. So sekarang bila Marsya dah besar sikit, hopefully your antibody will be stronger and I hope Marsya tak sakit teruk lagi.

So hari ni mummy nak pergi beli Scott's Emulsion yang orange tu untuk Marsya, prevention selsema. Start from today kena bagila. Duration time adalah 7.00 am to 6.30 pm but I will send on 8.00 am and pick you up latest 6.00 pm. Bulan puasa Mummy amik awal, 4.30 pm Mummy dah keluar ofis dah.

Marsya dah  1 year and 6 month and almost can talk. Bukanlah full talking tapi bercakap la kan and you're going to have lots of friends nanti. Jomla keluar dari kepompong Marsya kat klm tu.

Tapi Mummy tengah fikir macamana nak bagitau nenek and atuk. Nenek Marsya akan pergi umrah next month so kalau boleh biarlah nenek pergi dengan aman dan tenang, and before tu sempat nak buat solat taubat ke apa ke kan, kalau jaga Marsya karang kena full attention.

Lagipun Marsya suka sangat kacau kitab dan al-Quran nenek sampai koyak tau. Pantang nenek baca buku sikit terus Marsya kacau ank baca jugak dan koyakkan. Sape tahan. Marsya makin membesar and growing. 

That's why I decided to take care of you.

Daddy cakap dia nak start kerja tapi tak tahu bila. Dia macam dah ada kerja sebab daddy tak nak buat business lagi. Business is business la tapi part time je kut. Daddy akan kembali bekerja and we hope that anything that we planned menjadila and hope 2012 will be shining to us.

So Marsya rasa macamana?

Marsya jom iku mummy jom!

She got feelings, yo!

Kadang - kadang susah untuk menjangka apa yang anak anda mahu.

I am talking about Marsya of course, siapa lagi.

She can't speak, can't tell what she wants exactly kecuali makan dan minum susu sebab usually kita akan ikut jadual makan kan supaya dia tak lapar.

Semalam (Isnin) mummy kena gastrik since pukul 6 pagi dah berguling-guling macam apa. Then, after my baby wake up, she saw me berguling -guling camtu. dia menjadi tersangat pelik dan keluarla jerman dia.

Mummy can't understand even a word, but I understand that reaction that she tried to say "Mummy why?"

So mummy cakap "Mumy sakit perut".

And my mom tolong sapukan minyak kat perut I and Marsya pun sama sibuk la nak tahu apa nenek dia buat. Siap tolong gosokkan punggung I, perut I semua. Muka dia pun sama berkerut-kerut macam muka mummy yang sedang tahan sakit ni.

She got feelings rupanya.

Incident before this was everytime dia nampak boy age 12 - 20 plus, dia akan malu. (tak boleh blah!)

Siap tutup-tutup muka lagi, konon malu la. Kalau jumpa ala-ala rakan sebaya dia akan cuba ajak main.

Ok, kalau perempuan pun sama.Cuba ajak main dan suruh tiru apa dia buat. Contoh, dia akan berdiri di kerusi dan akan ajak that girl main benda sama. If budak tu tak nak ikut dia, dia akan marah - marah tak tahu cakap apa. Ok, it so bossy! That one you take your daddy's, not mine! Heheheheheh.

She is so moody sometimes and tak dapat apa dia nak, dia akan baling something and cakap "Haaaaaaaaa". Dan masih suka pukul kepala sendiri, dah tak kuat sangat, pukul perlahan je. Sebab dah tahu sakit kan?

Bila everyone pay attention to her, dia akan suka. Cuba kalau kita berborak-borak tanpa pedulikan dia, tiba-tiba anda akan nampak macam tenggiling di kaki anda. Apakah????

Ok, enough bout her. Her atuk will coming back tomorrow so Marsya mesti suka sebab sementara atuk takde ni, asik sebut atuk jer kan.

marsya at 18th month

Yes, she's 18 month at 20th March 2012. I am not sure if I wanted to go back home (my mom's) today. It depends if daddy has much work to do then maybe we are going back klm tomorrow. 

Tadi baru mummy call nenek dan boleh dengar through phone suara Marsya menjerit-jerit then my mom gave me the phone and I ask her "Marsya nak pergi mana?" She replied me as usual "Ja-ko". Then terjerit-jerit lagi.

Mak cakap mak nak bawa Marsya pusing-pusing kampung dengan stroller since dia dah mengamuk. I just can't imagine how my mom going to handle Marsya alone. Stroller??? Pusing kampung?? Biar betik nenek nih!

Yup, sebab atuk ade trip pergi umrah with his siblings last Friday. Marsya hantar sekali atuk kat klia siap bagi flying kiss lagi, owhhhh!!!! And malam tu bila kami pulang ke kk, sebelum tidur tiba-tiba Marsya sebut 'atuk'. I looked at my husband and kita berdua kerut-kerut kening ok!

Perkataan  baru untuk Marsya adalah 'atuk which she will say it out loud and clear. When we asked her "Marsya sayang siapa?" She will say 'atuk'. Sikit-sikit atuk. Owh, mummy tak boleh blah! Hahahahah. Nenek pun dengki sebab tak cakap 'nenek'. Heheheheheheh

Marsya dah makan nasi full sebab kadang-kadang dia tanak nasi lembik, ikut mood diala. Kalau bagi nasi and soups, selera makan. Kalau tiba-tiba tanak nasi keras, kena masak nasi lembik pulak, baru banyak makan. Ikut mood dialah. Dia kan the DIVA. 

She is the boss now is not acceptable behavior. Baling everything and expect us to collect it for her. Kalau biarkan, dia akan stress dan mengamuk sambil berguling. Berguling guling di lantai ataupun paling extreme Marsya akan pukul kepala sendiri! 

Marsya, you know what mummy and daddy plan to give you 'adik'. Hahahaahh. Not really la. We plan to but it will depends in every situation that would be:- financial, economic plans, stability of daddy's business and everything. Also age. I din want to gave birth at 35 and more so I will beranak within this four years and stop.

I cannot manage small child masa tua nanti. I don't want to! So time will tell everything. If I got preggie, I would not ever wanted it to be burden but should be a 'gift'. So Marsya, if mummy got pregnant, I will tell you first ok! Luv u and happy 18th month birthday baby!

Anak oh anak

Oh anak, Marsya sudah baik dan semakin nakal, huhuhuhuhu.

Sepanjang last week, mummy and daddy terpaksa berkampung di KLM sebab takkan nak tinggal anak demam dengan mak (ur nenek kan) kan.Mummy dahla emosi tak berapa stable lately, ditambah anak demam. Malam-malam Marsya mengamuk macam apa je sebab tak selesa, panas dan nak berkepit dengan daddy.

Mummy macam biasalah, kalau dah tutup lampu mummy akan zzzzzzzzzzzz. Daddy akan tidurkan Marsya lepas mummy buat susu. Tapi setiap malam mummy yang akan bangun buatkan susu untuk marsya then continue with daddy to look after you. Right now, Marsya was soooooo like daddy's daughter because nak peluk daddy time tidur, nak daddy tidurkan, nak cium tangan daddy la, apela semua.

Bila Mummy kenang-kenangkan balik it is so thankful to Allah sebab Marsya takde penyakit ke ape ke, it just demam viral and you are cranky because you are sick. And at this stage you behave strangely yang mengugat kesabaran Mummy but both of us tries to be more patience on this situation. There was a time Mummy rasa nak pukul je Marsya sebab geram but I selalu fikir, once Mummy dah letak tangan selalu kat anak nanti lagi senang Mummy nak pukul, selalu kena pukul. I will safe 'pukul' tu untuk certain situation yang dah melampau to teach you what is wrong and what it right. It is not easy job to be a mummy you know.

Sekarang after Marsya mandi je, say will say 'jas ko' sebab nak keluar and everyday nenek will call me and give the phone to you and you will say 'a-mi' continue by your Japanese language which sometimes Korean kut, ahahahahahah. Its funny. I dunno what you are trying to say but I will say 'Mummy pergi kerja ni, jangan nakal-nakal k. Its like a real talk kelakar.

Semalam balik je kerja Mummy kemas rumah bawah, mop lantai living room and dapur after I vacuum all, then kemaskan habuk-habuk, lap semua. Bilik tidur Mummy suruh Daddy sambung vacuum sebab dah tak larat, eheheheh. Mummy sidai baju (Daddy dah basuhkan) and lipat kain. Before that Mummy and Daddy dah bantai megi sebab rasa lapar pulak. Car park kat depan rumah Mummy sempat sapu je, garden kita dah tumbuh lalang Mummy tak larat nak cabut. Semalam bila Mummy ajak Daddy cabut, dia pulak busy nak cari supplier untuk projek dia. Kolam ikan dah banyak lumut pun tak sempat nak bersihkan. Kesian fish Marsya.Nasib baikla supply pallets fish tak putus, so okla kan fish dapat makan everyday.

Daha malam Uncle Rosdy datang ajak pergi makan kat Jalan Kebun. Mummy was like sooooooo exhausted after that sebab ambil ubat selsema and vitamin C because flu Mummy tak elok lagi. So balik Mummy terus zzzzzzzzzz sebab esok (hari ni) nenek ajak Mummy beli barang kat Jusco (tempat feveret Marsya). Hahahhaahahah.

Okla, nanti mummy akan update pictures Marsya ye, luv u baby!

Marsya Demam

Marsya tidak sihat.

Dia demam dari ahad malam

Dia sakit dan cirit birit. Mummy kemudian bawanya ke klinik dan doktor cakap infection sebab habitnya yang suke gigit kuku.

Sangat kesian sebab panasnya malam sahaja. 

Macam nenek (my mom) cakap sebab dia nak pandai bercakap dan berubah bulan. Ye, bayak perktaan dia sudah tahu especially kalau keluar rumah dia akan cakap 'ja-ko' means jusco.

Pergi kedai depan rumah pun dia akan cakap 'ja-ko'.

Ye, mungkin sebab dia mahu membesar dan dan sangat menguji kesabaran ibu bapanya. Tersangat!

Huhuhuhuhuhu, mummy harus lebih bersabar!